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Post by gem Tue Feb 01 2011, 20:57

Hi everyone just asking everyone what would you do in my position. One of my horses is 24 years old and has arthritis in her hip bones there is nothing that can be done its too far gone for injections,she has muscle waste in her rear as shes not moving corectly. Throught winter she is on strong pain killers to ease aches and pains.
She is happy enough eats well and does nothing stressfull and can still gallop up and down the feild.
The advise im asking is when is enough enough and when to have her pts do I let her go out with dignity when she still able or do I wait till she can no longer stand the pain.
What would be the right way to do right by her?
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Post by janey Tue Feb 01 2011, 20:58

I think you have to trust your own instincts.
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Post by Guest Tue Feb 01 2011, 21:01

You will know when it is time... you will look out on her one day and see the "special look" in her eyes and she will let you know,
It is such a hard decision to make.. but I am sure you will do what you need to when the time comes
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take care.. sorry to hear about your Horse Sad

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Post by Steve Tue Feb 01 2011, 21:06

yea i agree with the posts above Sad

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Post by gem Tue Feb 01 2011, 21:08

Thanks ladies its a decision ill have to make oneday just wanted to know everyones thoughts my hearts broken ive had her 17 years Crying or Very sad
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Post by Stevie b Tue Feb 01 2011, 21:09

Don't really know alot about horses but I'm guessing you will know if she is happy or not? If she is ok in herself then I think she will be ok to keep going,as mel said I'm sure you will know when she is ready to go! Hope she is ok though!
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Post by Guest Tue Feb 01 2011, 21:10

It's such a hard decision to make. But you love her too much to let her suffer. I'm sure when the time comes you'll know, and you'll find the strength to let her go.

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Post by Hayley109 Tue Feb 01 2011, 21:21

Crying or Very sad

i agree with all the above posts. You will know when its time, im so sorry to hear this! I cant imagine what you must be feeling after such a long time together.

Love and Hugs, Hayley and Logan. x
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Post by Guest Tue Feb 01 2011, 21:43

Gem i feel for you 3 times i went to the vets with my last dog expecting not to take her home but when the time finally did come it just felt right, you'll know when the right time is because you know the horse better than anyone x

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Post by Guest Tue Feb 01 2011, 21:44

Same as above
Such a hard thing to have to do, especially after such a long time together. Don't know what else to say, apart from we are always here to lend a ear

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Post by gem Tue Feb 01 2011, 21:56

Thanks you guys its just I know shes okay for now but sometimes I feel am I being selfish Im defo keeping her till the end of next summer she loves the warm weather and then ill see what her condition is like and weigh up the options then kiss
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Post by Guest Tue Feb 01 2011, 22:03

Yes, give her the summer to enjoy & then just see how she is.

To be honest, if the painkillers are working, she's comfortable & content, I'd leave her be. She deserves a peaceful retirement & when the time comes you can give her a dignified peace.

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Post by youngkaiser Tue Feb 01 2011, 22:35

It is defo a decsion you have to make and truat your own instict she will let you know when the time is right and she has had enough. I love horses my boss at work has 4 mucked out with her once dont know how you do it all the time its too cold in the winter
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Post by gem Wed Feb 02 2011, 00:22

We are raving mad and you have to be 100% commited im mucking my 2 out about 6.30- 7am every morning doh
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Post by Tys mummy Wed Feb 02 2011, 10:58

Aww so sorry to hear this its so sad! Same as above you will know when its time and you will make the rite decision for your girl see how she goes and hopefully she will get her nice summer before that time comes.
Thinking of you and your poor girl xx
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Post by Guest Wed Feb 02 2011, 16:05

Thats another amazing thing about animals especially horses their so intuned you'll be able to see it in her eyes when she is ready, Just like we did with our spliff.


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Post by Guest Wed Feb 02 2011, 16:06

MissRogue wrote:Thats another amazing thing about animals especially horses their so intuned you'll be able to see it in her eyes when she is ready, Just like we did with our spliff.

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Post by youngkaiser Wed Feb 02 2011, 21:20

gem wrote:We are raving mad and you have to be 100% commited im mucking my 2 out about 6.30- 7am every morning doh

It is definately dedication that i love them but couldnt cope with the mucking out in winter too cold
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