Respect or trust in a relationship?

i think a good relationship need little bit of both but if they cheat on you it time to call it a day.

If my wife cheated it would be over.....Simples
And if I cheated on her I'd expect her to wrap a frying pan round my head and end it.
I understand what your saying but for example my partner should stand up and say something is wrong long before someone cheats to say they want to work at the relationship, not have a bit of fun first then make an effort.

if it happend to me i would be gutted
i would have to spend money on another bloody freezer grrrrr

bigwazza wrote:if it happend to me i would be gutted
i would have to spend money on another bloody freezer grrrrr

You should get that extension done......I can't see the new mrs being able to relax in front of the telly with all them freezers in the living room

bigwazza wrote:if it happend to me i would be gutted
i would have to spend money on another bloody freezer grrrrr

you need to start eating whats in you're freezer then maybe you could fit more in

I kind of agree with the person on the other forum. You and your oh have a free pass to cheat, as long as you tell each other after. We've had this conversation on another thread and I said that if my husband cheated on me, there's obviously something wrong in our relationship. If you really love yr husband/wife/oh, you wouldnt cheat, there'd be no reason. Everyone else agreed. If my husband cheated, we'd be getting a divorce shortly after. I know what you're saying in a way tho cos i'd feel much worse about it if I had to find out from something else rather than him having the balls to tell me himself. It goes without saying that I would NEVER cheat on my husband. I love him and could never even consider it. I expect the same from him, otherwise, what's the point in our marriage?

Bubbles-mum wrote:[color=black] It's all about trust a relationship is.

But if your OH's cheating, where is the trust? Gone. How can you trust them not to do it again? No matter how hard you try, it'll always be in the background. OH's late home - are you having an affair? OH's on the phone more than usual - are you having an affair? OH does themselves up a bit more than usual - well, you get the idea.

think it need both of them to work.....

but as for cheating that be the game killer for me..

and i know id never do it,im to shy really to talk to girls at the best of times.......