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Post by smitherssss23 Mon Aug 01 2011, 01:07

I've been down the past few days for various reasons which I choose to keep to myself for other various reasons but today it just felt like EVERYTHING I did was wrong If I sat down for 5 minuets it was your always ignoring the dog do this down that or if I was up it was you always in the way and people know that I'm down ect and that the reasons are quite big and the just still have a go at me so in the end I went out for a stroll Smile I think Maxi has been picking up on my tensions ect because shes been trying to play very roughly with me which she only does when I'm angry where as when I'm sad she comes and gives me hugs and licks like she did earlier Smile anyway vent over time to try and work out a way for me to make money thinking seen as Mums lost a job :@ sorry for the long message chatterbox
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Post by Guest Mon Aug 01 2011, 04:46

Soory to hear that you are down. I usually either drink or exercise to get out of it. Given you're a bit young I'd advise exercise Laughing Try not to let things get to you because normally things will work themselves out.

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Post by janey Mon Aug 01 2011, 09:09

Oh love, sorry to hear your on a downer, happens to us all so your not alone and vent away, we're here to listen. Sometimes nothing I do is right and I live on my own! Past weekend included! Nearly had a fall out with 2 people, not my fault really but god did it make me feel like poo all day yesterday. It will pass, I promise. Take Maxi out for the day and just get away.

Sorry to hear about your mums job, chin up mate. Smile
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Post by Guest Mon Aug 01 2011, 10:05

It always helps to have a good vent / chat when things get you down, and we are here for you if you need to do that.
We all have good and bad days, and obviously it was one of those days. Chin up mate, tomorrow is a new day. Try and keep a smile on your dial

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Post by Guest Mon Aug 01 2011, 10:28

Don't worry about long posts & venting & ranting! If you feel like a rant, go ahead & get it out, we'll all listen & if we can help we will.

Sorry to hear about your mum's job - that's enough to make any family a bit niggly with each other. I know it's easy for us to say, but it will pass & you'll be all the stronger for it. Chin up mate, you'll do fine.

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Post by Louise C Mon Aug 01 2011, 11:09

Chin up Laurence, it will all come good. We all have to turn rthe negatives into something positive. so keep smiling for maxi, your doing a great job with her. >Big Grin<
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Post by smitherssss23 Mon Aug 01 2011, 15:20

Tah Smile
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Yes I think you would find everyone here, at some stage has felt like you did. The best thing you can do is get it off your chest..we are all good listeners here!

Take care and give Maxi a cuddle.. that always helps!!

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Post by Guest Mon Aug 01 2011, 17:04

just wait til you can take Maxi out - its one of the reasons i got woody, it helps to go out walking with the dog and just let all your anger/upset disappear. you know that they are always there for you no matter

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Post by dkay72 Mon Aug 01 2011, 17:44

laurence if i gave you my advice ide dragg you down even further with wats goin on in my life at the mo Crying or Very sad but on a good note you seem very intelligent for a young lad even with ur probs .... so chin up kid battle thru it and enjoy just wat youve got and be happy, you and maxi got a lot of enjoyable times together so try not to let things get to you Big Grin
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Post by Guest Wed Aug 03 2011, 08:19

Hope you are feeling better I have had a crap few months but there is light at the end of the tunnell chin up xxxx

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Post by Guest Wed Aug 03 2011, 16:35

one of the best things about staffys dogs n pups ... the give GREAT calming hugs!! .. hope things are better 4 you soon!

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Post by smitherssss23 Thu Aug 04 2011, 19:40

Thank you for all the advice Big Grin I've been much better over the last few days Smile Maxis been cuddling me loads recently Smile I think she can tell Smile I have to go for a anger management and mental health assessment today Rolling Eyes but thanks for the suggestions Smile
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Post by janey Thu Aug 04 2011, 20:19

Was it Maxi's first walk today? Smile
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Post by smitherssss23 Thu Aug 04 2011, 20:30

Yeah but she went no where -.- so no pictures as she just sat at the end of the alleyway Rolling Eyes
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Post by janey Thu Aug 04 2011, 20:35

Well keep trying, this is your bigest step in her life and the most important for her and you. Give you something to concentrate and focus on hun Smile Chin up love, been there myself, stay focused on Maxi now Xx
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Post by smitherssss23 Thu Aug 04 2011, 20:41

Shes out for the count on my lap now Big Grin so we'll try again with tomorrow hopfully resulting in some pictures Smile
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Post by Guest Thu Aug 04 2011, 20:44

you can only keep trying dont give up. little steps. as said above something good for you to focus on

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Post by janey Thu Aug 04 2011, 20:45

Just remain positive, they are such an amzing stress relief, it's the start of her 'big' worlds life! and its up to you to train her and teach her. Wait until she meets her first dog and finds her first stick! Makes life that much more enjoyable Smile
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Post by dkay72 Thu Aug 04 2011, 20:46

good lad Smile and be carefull not to walk her for too long laurence dont rush things ok Big Grin
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Post by smitherssss23 Thu Aug 04 2011, 20:51

Yeah I can't wait Smile HaHa I'm dreading the first time she meets a dog nail biting and thanks I won't Smile
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Post by Guest Sat Aug 06 2011, 08:24

I am sure you will be fine xx

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