HELPPP

5 posters

Go down

Sad HELPPP

Post by kirsty-marley-1 Sun Jan 27 2013, 23:52

Hi all Smile,
Just came to ask how do i get marley use to not being in his crate no more? at night he just howls!!! untill i give in and put him back in, i left him out and thought 'he will stop soon' 3 hours later i was back down putting him back in his crate and he went straight to sleep, how can i get him use to not being in there no more?
Smile
kirsty-marley-1
kirsty-marley-1
Loyal Staffy-bull-terrier Member
Loyal Staffy-bull-terrier Member

Status Status :
Online
Offline

Female
Age : 29
Location : Birkenhead
Dogs Name(s) : Marley
Dog(s) Ages : 6 month's
Dog Gender(s) : Male
Join date : 2012-09-09
Support total : 3
Posts : 116

Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by janey Sun Jan 27 2013, 23:55



Just leave the door open, if thats where he prefers then why change? Smile
janey
janey
Staffy-Bull-Terrier VIP Member
Staffy-Bull-Terrier VIP Member

Status Status :
Online
Offline

Female
Age : 40
Location : Surrey
Dogs Name(s) : Moo
Dog(s) Ages : 5ish
Dog Gender(s) : Girly
Join date : 2010-08-28
Support total : 4824
Posts : 56018

Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by kirsty-marley-1 Sun Jan 27 2013, 23:58

Thanks Janey Smile plus i have moved him from the back room to under the stairs in the hall so ill move his cage there and leave the door open of a night Smile but will he cry if the door doesn't get closed? :/? x
kirsty-marley-1
kirsty-marley-1
Loyal Staffy-bull-terrier Member
Loyal Staffy-bull-terrier Member

Status Status :
Online
Offline

Female
Age : 29
Location : Birkenhead
Dogs Name(s) : Marley
Dog(s) Ages : 6 month's
Dog Gender(s) : Male
Join date : 2012-09-09
Support total : 3
Posts : 116

Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by janey Mon Jan 28 2013, 00:05



I doubt it if thats where he prefers to be Xx
janey
janey
Staffy-Bull-Terrier VIP Member
Staffy-Bull-Terrier VIP Member

Status Status :
Online
Offline

Female
Age : 40
Location : Surrey
Dogs Name(s) : Moo
Dog(s) Ages : 5ish
Dog Gender(s) : Girly
Join date : 2010-08-28
Support total : 4824
Posts : 56018

Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by Guest Mon Jan 28 2013, 00:07

I he has been using the crate as a bed thenocking him out of it will be confusing. Just leave the door open an let him decide when he's ready to come out.

Guest
Guest


Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by pongy Mon Jan 28 2013, 00:09

Strange problem to have that, it's usually the other way around they won't go in or stay in. Why don't you just hang curtain over the door so he can come or go as he pleases
pongy
pongy
Staffy-Bull-Terrier Donator
Staffy-Bull-Terrier Donator

Status Status :
Online
Offline

Female
Age : 58
Location : Devon
Relationship Status : Prefer to not say
Dogs Name(s) : cassie
Dog(s) Ages : 2 years (we think)
Dog Gender(s) : female
Join date : 2012-10-11
Support total : 163
Posts : 1327

Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by Guest Mon Jan 28 2013, 00:24

He just love's his little den. Why dont you want him to sleep there? Smile

Guest
Guest


Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by Guest Mon Jan 28 2013, 01:22

Usually the other way around...weird. It's his preferred place to sleep/relax I guess, so if he's comfy there, just let him stay there.

Guest
Guest


Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by Mark Mon Jan 28 2013, 06:36

our 2 love their cages its their retreat/den but they can sleep in a bed too without the cage. I think they are just cosyer in there Smile
Mark
Mark
Staffy-Bull-Terrier VIP Member
Staffy-Bull-Terrier VIP Member

Status Status :
Online
Offline

Male
Age : 59
Location : yorkshire
Relationship Status : Married
Dogs Name(s) : Miley and Dylan
Dog(s) Ages : 2 and a half and 2
Dog Gender(s) : female/ Male
Join date : 2012-11-17
Support total : 464
Posts : 3304

Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by Kathy Mon Jan 28 2013, 12:43

Maybe he just feels safe in the crate, as said already just leave the door open so he can come and go as he wants. A cover on the crate may be a good idea too.
Kathy
Kathy
Staffy-Bull-Terrier VIP Member
Staffy-Bull-Terrier VIP Member

Status Status :
Online
Offline

Female
Age : 52
Location : Bedfordshire
Relationship Status : Married
Dogs Name(s) : Rocky
Dog(s) Ages : 5 Years Old
Dog Gender(s) : Male & a bit of a tart
Join date : 2011-08-02
Support total : 4006
Posts : 42107

Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by kirsty-marley-1 Mon Jan 28 2013, 13:26

We have had no problem with him in his cage when we first got him he was a gem going in there! he cryed once then i left the light on for a couple of nights, well mum and everyone else thinks its sad to leave him in his cage at night for his whole life so i brought him a big bed & now hes just really confused about where he's sleeping but last night i put him in the front room in his bed and he cryed a little until i got in to bed & he stopped but barked through the night a little because there was people going past the house he didn't fully wake until 9:00am Big Grin but now when we go out he isn't always caged and has the front room and hall to walk about in if he wants Big Grin
kirsty-marley-1
kirsty-marley-1
Loyal Staffy-bull-terrier Member
Loyal Staffy-bull-terrier Member

Status Status :
Online
Offline

Female
Age : 29
Location : Birkenhead
Dogs Name(s) : Marley
Dog(s) Ages : 6 month's
Dog Gender(s) : Male
Join date : 2012-09-09
Support total : 3
Posts : 116

Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by Guest Mon Jan 28 2013, 13:29

Why do you want him to stop using the crate? A lot of dogs use them throughout theirs lives and it becomes their den, or a safe place. I never close the door of Logan's crate.

Kathy's idea of crate covers or covering the crate will also help him relax.


Guest
Guest


Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by Guest Mon Jan 28 2013, 13:34

kirsty-marley-1 wrote: well mum and everyone else thinks its sad to leave him in his cage at night for his whole life

Only just saw this part. It isn't sad all, he probably really loves his crate. As long as the door isn't closed he will have the choice of going in and out. Chance are he'll prefer to be inside.

I bought Logan a comfy bed once and he never used it lol. He prefers a few blankets in a quiet comfy corner.

Guest
Guest


Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by kirsty-marley-1 Mon Jan 28 2013, 15:33

Yeah, the people who live with me are saying it makes the room look untidy, but i would prefer to keep him in his cage if that is what makes him lost comfy Big Grin
kirsty-marley-1
kirsty-marley-1
Loyal Staffy-bull-terrier Member
Loyal Staffy-bull-terrier Member

Status Status :
Online
Offline

Female
Age : 29
Location : Birkenhead
Dogs Name(s) : Marley
Dog(s) Ages : 6 month's
Dog Gender(s) : Male
Join date : 2012-09-09
Support total : 3
Posts : 116

Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by pongy Mon Jan 28 2013, 15:57

kirsty-marley-1 wrote: well mum and everyone else thinks its sad to leave him in his cage at night for his whole life Big Grin
If you were locking the door for days on end then yes thats cruel, but for my Cassie her crate is hers and it's her den, Cassie chooses to come in and out with her toys all day, Cassie feels safe if voices get raised even when we are joking Cassie runs into her crate and sits with her head sticking out of the door, it's her space her choice and i don't give 2 s***s wether it looks scruffy because it distracts peoples attention off the muddy paw print stains on the beige carpet Big Grin And Cassie has put her stamp on the house it's her home
pongy
pongy
Staffy-Bull-Terrier Donator
Staffy-Bull-Terrier Donator

Status Status :
Online
Offline

Female
Age : 58
Location : Devon
Relationship Status : Prefer to not say
Dogs Name(s) : cassie
Dog(s) Ages : 2 years (we think)
Dog Gender(s) : female
Join date : 2012-10-11
Support total : 163
Posts : 1327

Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by kirsty-marley-1 Mon Jan 28 2013, 16:13

I think i will take everyone's advice then and not get rid of the cage if he doesn't want me to!! when voices get raised in our house he run's to me and will not! come out of the front room until he is stroked and calmed Sad this is why i need my own place! Because he is scared of certain people in here & he snaps a lot of the time at them Sad
kirsty-marley-1
kirsty-marley-1
Loyal Staffy-bull-terrier Member
Loyal Staffy-bull-terrier Member

Status Status :
Online
Offline

Female
Age : 29
Location : Birkenhead
Dogs Name(s) : Marley
Dog(s) Ages : 6 month's
Dog Gender(s) : Male
Join date : 2012-09-09
Support total : 3
Posts : 116

Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by pongy Mon Jan 28 2013, 17:13

PS
kirsty-marley-1 wrote:of the cage ... this is why i need my own place:(
Firstly you may feel better with the crate if you stopped calling it a cage Big Grin
It's very well having your own place, but you are young and houses and dogs are very expensive, you have vets bills,pet insurance,food and equipment for Marley will you be able to supply these? Don't be in too much of a rush to move out Big Grin I sometimes wish i was still living back home
pongy
pongy
Staffy-Bull-Terrier Donator
Staffy-Bull-Terrier Donator

Status Status :
Online
Offline

Female
Age : 58
Location : Devon
Relationship Status : Prefer to not say
Dogs Name(s) : cassie
Dog(s) Ages : 2 years (we think)
Dog Gender(s) : female
Join date : 2012-10-11
Support total : 163
Posts : 1327

Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by kirsty-marley-1 Mon Jan 28 2013, 17:29

Sorry dave haha, everyone calls it a 'cage' in our house haha + no i can't really afford that but that is why my mum is going to get a house with me so she can help me and when i can handle on my own she will look for somewere else for herself :-)
kirsty-marley-1
kirsty-marley-1
Loyal Staffy-bull-terrier Member
Loyal Staffy-bull-terrier Member

Status Status :
Online
Offline

Female
Age : 29
Location : Birkenhead
Dogs Name(s) : Marley
Dog(s) Ages : 6 month's
Dog Gender(s) : Male
Join date : 2012-09-09
Support total : 3
Posts : 116

Back to top Go down

Sad Re: HELPPP

Post by Sponsored content


Sponsored content


Back to top Go down

Back to top

- Similar topics

 
Permissions in this forum:
You cannot reply to topics in this forum