today dabate/poll: partner had passionately kissed someone else

ok just listing to my fave radio station and they just asked this question.

what would you do if you found out your partner had passionately kissed someone else?

Depends who with....If she did it with Blue, I don't think I could ever forgive him.

I'd need to find the partner first!!

Janey wrote:I'd need to find the partner first!!

same here

there would be another body in my freezers ha ha

bigwazza wrote:there would be another body in my freezers ha ha

lmao warren

Well I must be a bit soft cause if say he had too many and passionaly kissed someone then It would cost him dearly but I think I would forgive him. I have been married 27 years and hes never passionatly kissed me I dont think he knows what it is ha ha!!!!

There should be an "other" option, I'd just go passionately kiss someone else, probably someone the missus hates or an ex just for extra effect, there are no excuses for doing the dirty on someone, there may be reasons but I won't buy the whole "I was drunk" rubbish

I dunno. I'm too lazy to fight with people i would probably just laugh then he would leave me for not caring!

Get rid right away, clothes lying out in the rain.

Been there, done that...

out on his ear then down the pub for a few ciders and off to find Mr New !!!

I don't know i've snogged a few lasses erm 'passionately' but i did it right in his face and he wasn't miffed

depends who it is or if he kept it from me

i really do not know

ella wrote:I don't know i've snogged a few lasses erm 'passionately' but i did it right in his face and he wasn't miffed

depends who it is or if he kept it from me

dont think you will find many blokes that would be upset watching there other half snoging anther girl haha its a bit of a dream for some

Warren wrote:

ella wrote:I don't know i've snogged a few lasses erm 'passionately' but i did it right in his face and he wasn't miffed

depends who it is or if he kept it from me

dont think you will find many blokes that would be upset watching there other half snoging anther girl haha its a bit of a dream for some

I'll drink to that

Warren wrote:

ella wrote:I don't know i've snogged a few lasses erm 'passionately' but i did it right in his face and he wasn't miffed

depends who it is or if he kept it from me

dont think you will find many blokes that would be upset watching there other half snoging anther girl haha its a bit of a dream for some

i can agree with this my OH heard i have kissed a few girlies in my past and wonders why i dont do it now !!! lol !!!

Get rid 100%

I always think very highly of my oh and I would lose all respect if he did.


Anyhow he can kiss me anytime he wants

Really depends on the circumstances. People make mistakes. If that was all it was - a mistake - then I'd consider it carefully. If I believed that it was a one-off thing and would never happen again, I wouldn't want one mistake to mess up the relationship. After all, everybody makes mistakes. Who am I to say whether or not their mistakes are worse than mine?

Having said that, the trust would obviously be gone, so I'd want to start the relationship again from a lower level to rebuild trust.

If it wasn't a one time mistake, he'd be on the end of my right hook.

I can assure you from experience there is no such thing as just a one off thing

It may be rare, but it happens.

Warren wrote:

ella wrote:I don't know i've snogged a few lasses erm 'passionately' but i did it right in his face and he wasn't miffed

depends who it is or if he kept it from me

dont think you will find many blokes that would be upset watching there other half snoging anther girl haha its a bit of a dream for some

well seeing as though i'm bi twos good for me too