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Post by smitherssss23 Fri Jul 22 2011, 22:40

After months of physical verbal and emotional bullying I finally built up the corage to talk about it and stop seeing him in about February when I also stopped going to school due to bullying at school problems with anger and depression and having a stressful experience with a mums partner including violence well anyway back on point :') he just sent me an abusive inbox on facebook telling me how everything was all my fault and he was moving to Brazil and then him and his partner blocked me -.-
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Post by janey Fri Jul 22 2011, 22:43

Oh love, you ok?? Familys can be hard, mine are. Xx
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Post by smitherssss23 Fri Jul 22 2011, 22:49

Yeah I'm good it just makes me laugh how immature he can be -.- and yeah its tough -.-
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Post by Steve Fri Jul 22 2011, 22:49

i dont know what to say but dont let it make you go down the wrong road becasue in notts if you go down that road no will care for you (even so call firends)... and you will end up fighting everybody

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Post by Guest Fri Jul 22 2011, 22:50

Families can be awful at times, i only speak to my dad mainly out of mine.

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Post by smitherssss23 Fri Jul 22 2011, 22:52

I know especially in Sneinton right on Saint Anns door step but I'm moving to Sherwood soon so it'll be better Smile
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Post by janey Fri Jul 22 2011, 22:57

Chin up hun Smile
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Post by Guest Fri Jul 22 2011, 22:58

>Big Grin<

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Post by smitherssss23 Fri Jul 22 2011, 22:58

Thanks guys Smile
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Post by Guest Fri Jul 22 2011, 23:37

Oh, Laurence that's bad. You holding up ok?

If you need to rant a bit - go ahead, anytime. We're good listeners!

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Post by smitherssss23 Sat Jul 23 2011, 00:51

Yeah I'm fine now Smile lots of hugs from Maxi and I have some good friends around me NOW Smile and Thanks I will Smile
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Post by Guest Sat Jul 23 2011, 01:20

Seems a bit like my childhood. My dad was an alcholic and would be abusive. I also had alot of problems at school since we were poor. I was also fairly intellegent and where I grew up that was a reason to start a fight. It got so bad that I had to carry my school books around in a pizza box. It seemed as if every other day I was getting into fights and I went the wrong road and made alot of bad decisions. Don't let it get to you if you can because I turned out mostly okay. I'll send you a friend invite and if you want we can exchange e-mail adresses if you need someone to talk to that has had similiar problems in life.

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Post by smitherssss23 Sat Jul 23 2011, 01:57

Yeah he was like a druggie ect But yeah were fairly poor and I'm 'clever Smile But yeah fights as well :/ But things weren't that bad as my mum is better off and ok I dont really use my e-mail :/ but thank youu Smile
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Post by Guest Sat Jul 23 2011, 06:07

U ok mate ?
Things can get tough, but stay strong....lil' Maxi will help you through. He'll always be there for company, hugs, companionship, friendship, and best of all he'll always accept YOU for being YOU and will always listen to you if you need to talk. Might sound silly talking about stuff to a dog, but it can be geat therapy Wink They don't judge you...as long as you provide for them and care for them.

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Post by Msigler Sat Jul 23 2011, 06:43

I went on my own at 16. Me and my pit bull clyde. Loopy is telling the truth.
Clyde talked me out of all sort of silly things. LOL. He took care of me and I took care of him for more than a decade.

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Post by Louise C Sat Jul 23 2011, 07:42

Awwwww Laurence big hugs and take Steve's advice, be a good lad for Maxi and yourself and we are all here for you >Big Grin<
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Post by Guest Sat Jul 23 2011, 11:47

sorry i have only just read this, i am so sorry that things have been bad for you, but now you have maxi and both of you togther will get through this, i did not have a happy childhood and moved as soon as i could, things do get better

so big massive hugs to you and maxi

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Post by Staffy Sat Jul 23 2011, 12:09

Chin up mate, things well get better.
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Post by Guest Sat Jul 23 2011, 15:02

Laurence keep on the right path, keep your confidence up and be proud of who you are, try and remain positive and strong, keep your good friends around you

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Post by Guest Sat Jul 23 2011, 15:47



yeah what can I say but to back up what everyone else has said. You have got a great companion in Maxi who will love you unconditionally...
sounds like you have a level head on your shoulder.. and all I can add is that sometimes adults who should know better, carry on worse than children do !

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Post by Bruno311210 Sat Jul 23 2011, 20:08

True what loopy (lisa) says I talk to Bruno all day long and he sits/lies and listens to me,secretly i think he understand everything i say Big Grin

But you know what they say what hurts only makes you a stronger person at the end of the day. Keep your chin up and remember we are here to listen so chat away Big Grin
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Post by smitherssss23 Sun Jul 24 2011, 18:58

Thanks guys made me smile reading all the ones I've missed Smile
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Post by Guest Sun Jul 24 2011, 19:02

glad you are feeling a bit happier

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Post by janey Sun Jul 24 2011, 19:50

Just be positive hun, and feel free to vent, anytime thats needed Xx
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Post by Guest Sun Jul 24 2011, 19:53

smitherssss23 wrote:Thanks guys made me smile reading all the ones I've missed Smile

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