Urgggg My 'father' -.-
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Urgggg My 'father' -.-
After months of physical verbal and emotional bullying I finally built up the corage to talk about it and stop seeing him in about February when I also stopped going to school due to bullying at school problems with anger and depression and having a stressful experience with a mums partner including violence well anyway back on point :') he just sent me an abusive inbox on facebook telling me how everything was all my fault and he was moving to Brazil and then him and his partner blocked me -.-
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Oh love, you ok?? Familys can be hard, mine are. Xx
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Yeah I'm good it just makes me laugh how immature he can be -.- and yeah its tough -.-
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i dont know what to say but dont let it make you go down the wrong road becasue in notts if you go down that road no will care for you (even so call firends)... and you will end up fighting everybody
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Families can be awful at times, i only speak to my dad mainly out of mine.
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I know especially in Sneinton right on Saint Anns door step but I'm moving to Sherwood soon so it'll be better
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Chin up hun
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Thanks guys
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Oh, Laurence that's bad. You holding up ok?
If you need to rant a bit - go ahead, anytime. We're good listeners!
If you need to rant a bit - go ahead, anytime. We're good listeners!
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Yeah I'm fine now lots of hugs from Maxi and I have some good friends around me NOW and Thanks I will
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Seems a bit like my childhood. My dad was an alcholic and would be abusive. I also had alot of problems at school since we were poor. I was also fairly intellegent and where I grew up that was a reason to start a fight. It got so bad that I had to carry my school books around in a pizza box. It seemed as if every other day I was getting into fights and I went the wrong road and made alot of bad decisions. Don't let it get to you if you can because I turned out mostly okay. I'll send you a friend invite and if you want we can exchange e-mail adresses if you need someone to talk to that has had similiar problems in life.
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Yeah he was like a druggie ect But yeah were fairly poor and I'm 'clever But yeah fights as well :/ But things weren't that bad as my mum is better off and ok I dont really use my e-mail :/ but thank youu
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U ok mate ?
Things can get tough, but stay strong....lil' Maxi will help you through. He'll always be there for company, hugs, companionship, friendship, and best of all he'll always accept YOU for being YOU and will always listen to you if you need to talk. Might sound silly talking about stuff to a dog, but it can be geat therapy They don't judge you...as long as you provide for them and care for them.
Things can get tough, but stay strong....lil' Maxi will help you through. He'll always be there for company, hugs, companionship, friendship, and best of all he'll always accept YOU for being YOU and will always listen to you if you need to talk. Might sound silly talking about stuff to a dog, but it can be geat therapy They don't judge you...as long as you provide for them and care for them.
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I went on my own at 16. Me and my pit bull clyde. Loopy is telling the truth.
Clyde talked me out of all sort of silly things. LOL. He took care of me and I took care of him for more than a decade.
Clyde talked me out of all sort of silly things. LOL. He took care of me and I took care of him for more than a decade.
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Awwwww Laurence big hugs and take Steve's advice, be a good lad for Maxi and yourself and we are all here for you ><
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sorry i have only just read this, i am so sorry that things have been bad for you, but now you have maxi and both of you togther will get through this, i did not have a happy childhood and moved as soon as i could, things do get better
so big massive hugs to you and maxi
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so big massive hugs to you and maxi
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Chin up mate, things well get better.
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Laurence keep on the right path, keep your confidence up and be proud of who you are, try and remain positive and strong, keep your good friends around you
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yeah what can I say but to back up what everyone else has said. You have got a great companion in Maxi who will love you unconditionally...
sounds like you have a level head on your shoulder.. and all I can add is that sometimes adults who should know better, carry on worse than children do !
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True what loopy (lisa) says I talk to Bruno all day long and he sits/lies and listens to me,secretly i think he understand everything i say
But you know what they say what hurts only makes you a stronger person at the end of the day. Keep your chin up and remember we are here to listen so chat away
But you know what they say what hurts only makes you a stronger person at the end of the day. Keep your chin up and remember we are here to listen so chat away
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Thanks guys made me smile reading all the ones I've missed
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Just be positive hun, and feel free to vent, anytime thats needed Xx
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smitherssss23 wrote:Thanks guys made me smile reading all the ones I've missed
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