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Post by Rachel33 Tue Jul 22 2014, 09:04

This post has been flying around facebook recently, shared from the Pets In Practise facebook page. I think it's spot on, and seems to have been a real eye opener.

The Life of a Reactive Dog Owner.
To all dog owners who have nice, friendly, sociable, unreactive dogs that love everybody and everything and want to be friends with all the dogs and people around. We, reactive dog owners, would like you to take a minute and read this, and understand what it is like for us to walk our dogs out and about.

To the dog owner who said to me “my dog is friendly and only wants to say hello” as your dog is running towards my reactive, fearful dog: it really doesn’t matter how friendly your dog is. Mine isn’t. My dog is terrified of other dogs (because he’s been attacked before or hasn’t been socialized as a pup and never learnt to interact properly), no matter how friendly they are. If your dog runs up to mine, my dog will most definitely have a go at him, no matter how much I will try to avoid it, and it will destroy all the hard work I’ve put into rehabilitating my dog and teaching him that he doesn’t have to react, but it will also be a very bad experience for your young and friendly dog. Yes, being told off is sometimes useful for young, inexperienced dogs, but being told off by a confident adult who has had enough of your pup’s jumping around, and my terrified, reactive dog are two very different things. Nobody benefits from this situation, so please, call your dog away.

To the dog owner who scowled at me when I politely asked him to call his dog away – I genuinely don’t mean to be rude to you or your dog. I’m trying to protect my dog, make sure his behaviour rehabilitation is successful, but I’m also doing it in your dog’s best interest. Being bitten or growled at is not something you want your dog to experience, and I’m just trying to make sure we can both prevent it.

To the dog owner who said to me that it was their right to have their dog off lead and let him approach any dog he wants – I’m afraid it’s not true. You need to have your dog under control – so either on lead or be able to call him away, otherwise you are not able to prevent him from running up to not only dogs, but also other people (including small children and those who are afraid of or don’t like dogs), cyclists, joggers and others who do not appreciate your dog’s company. Also remember that there are a lot of dogs being walked on lead not because they are reactive, but because they are ill or recovering from illness or surgery, and there are also assistance dogs that are working to make sure their humans are safe – remember that according to the newest legislation if your dog injures an assistance dog, you are liable. So if you see a dog being walked on lead, make sure you have your dog under proper control and don’t allow him to run up to on lead dogs, unless the other owner is happy for him to do so.

To the dog owners with their dog on an extendable or short lead who walks up to other on-lead dogs for their dog to “say hello” – again, sometimes it might be absolutely fine to do so, but DO ASK FIRST. Dogs on lead have a limited opportunity to use their body language properly when greeting other dogs and may feel trapped when unable to move away – even very friendly dogs can find this situation very uncomfortable. If the leads get tangled up and the dogs end up very close to each other and unable to move away, a fight is almost imminent. Don’t risk it.

To the dog owner who said we shouldn’t be walking our dogs as they are reactive, how else would you like us to exercise our dogs? We can assure you we choose the time to walk our dogs carefully – never during school runs or right after everybody comes back home from work; we choose secluded places and don’t take advantage of the lovely dog walking areas you have at your disposal; we pretty much never venture out during the day on Saturdays and Sundays, and either get up ridiculously early in the morning or walk very late at night to avoid bumping into hundreds of dogs and owners enjoying their weekend walkies. We genuinely do our best not to put our dogs and other people’s dogs into difficult situations. But we do have to get our dogs exercised, and if we want to rehabilitate our dogs, we need to encounter some dogs at a distance too, and sometimes it is when you are out with your very friendly dog, too. All we need is a bit of understanding and space for us to pass with our dog so he doesn’t react to yours. So please, put your dog back on lead for a minute.

And finally, to the lovely dog owners who call their dogs back for us and put them on lead as we walk past trying to keep our dog’s focus on us as much as we can. Thank you for your understanding and for not looking at us disapprovingly. We are trying our best to make our dogs’ lives better, we spend endless hours watching dogs at a distance, following behaviour modification programmes, taking tiny steps forward, and sometimes crying over steps back. It isn’t easy, and sometimes we would do anything for our dogs to just stop being “silly” and become sociable butterflies like other dogs are. But life’s not always that simple, and we love our dogs and want to help them. So thank you for helping us, too.
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Post by Guest Tue Jul 22 2014, 09:26

Yes I've seen this one, it's good. I didn't know much about reactive dogs until I got Lola. I reckon people who have a non reactive dog find it hard to understand as they haven't experienced the behaviour  biggrin 

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Post by shegsy Tue Jul 22 2014, 12:06

Enjoyed reading that and let's hope it's an eye opener for non-reactive dog owners and they take note when out with their well behaved dogs.
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Post by Staffy lover Tue Jul 22 2014, 12:49

Very good reading. I just however want to point something out, non reactive dogs can turn into reactive dogs out of the blue. Hence the reason, keep all dogs under control ever those well behave ones, you just never know.
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Post by Lizzie Tue Jul 22 2014, 13:14

So very very true  Smile 

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Post by -Ian- Tue Jul 22 2014, 13:16

Very well written.
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Post by stella Tue Jul 22 2014, 19:13

brilliant read,lets hope people remember it when walking their dogs  Smile 
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Post by janey Tue Jul 22 2014, 19:25

Fantastic! I am a lucky one who has a dog that loves other dogs and humans but if I ever see a dog on lead she is straight back on it! Its common courtesy - and common sense!

What does annoy me is people asking me to her on lead when their white fluffy is yapping at her off lead!
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Post by Guest Tue Jul 22 2014, 20:00

Very good read, I too am fairly lucky with Vin but always put him on lead when another dog approaches purely for hiis own safety. An common sense  Big Grin 

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Post by Sazzle Tue Jul 22 2014, 20:44

Excellent read Rach, thanks for sharing  thumbs up 
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Post by flowerbud Thu Jul 24 2014, 20:28

Wow brilliant read. Everything I have said or thought myself with other owners.
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Post by SuziPea Fri Jul 25 2014, 23:55

A good read...  Dizz was like this when we first got him, no idea how to react to people. dogs or anything really.  We are lucky that he is so much better but he still gets put on his lead or made to lie down out of the way.  Common sense says you don't just approach any dog without knowing what it is like!
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