friends or so called friends

do you get a feeling with some they wouldn't even be bothered with you if you didn't talk to them first?

If that's the case then no they aren't friends  

i know i know  it does my head in

There are always that sort, hanging around & only talking to you when it suits them. To be honest, if they do that to me then the next time they say anything I tend to ignore them. 

Steve wrote:i know i know  it does my head in

  

I know what you mean Steve, you do all the running around, calling etc but if you didn't would they bother  I have a few like this.

It happens. Friends can drift away through all sorts of circumstances.

I found this is usually the case with me too, it was always me having to do the keeping in touch, not anymore though

Ive lost a friend cause i was a bit lazy, and i miss her a lot even though she did my head in. I've learned the lesson tho and i do try a bit harder with new friends.

I don't mind so much when people are busy, quite a lot my friends are having babies so I understand that I need to make more of any effort with them but if they just don't for no reason that's not fair