When is the right time ?
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When is the right time ?
Havent posted in awhile as we have been kept so so busy with work and we are now finally one step closer to adding a second fur baby as we now own a house!
We got the keys the 29th oct , and have been getting a few bits and pieces done before all the furnature gets moved in . Have taken ziggy along whenever we can , the first time he went to the new house he seemed very panty , and slightly over stimulated . i took along a fleece that he sleeps on and rubbed it along the doors, door frames and any place i could that was around his head height and below and then the next day when he went he seemed alot calmer , played and peed on everything in the big garden. I know when all his familar things and the furnature are in he will feel more comfy and the nicest thing is the house is on the same road as our current house so we will still do the same walk that we do in a morning and can still visit the lovely park that is local to us . We also plan to keep his routine the same to help settle him in .
Now as i have mentioned previously we wanted to get a second dog to the family and settled on having a female (as much as i would prefer two boys ) My question is , when is the right time ? The house has plenty of space to which if things didnt go well we can seperate etc and have come up with action plans for this .
There are two thoughts to when the right time is i feel :
1) Let him settle in the new pad and get used to the place and make it his own
2) get the new pup while the house is still new to him so he doesnt feel the new pup is taking over "his"house .
What are your thoughts and advice ? Would you wait 6 months ? after chirstmas ? before ?
Background on zig , he turned 3 may this year , came from a faily with kids and other dogs . His nature to other dogs is excitement , his hackles do rise , but he is just super excited . There has never been any agression to other dogs , he plays rough like most bull breeds , always seems to look worse than it is and he has a blast running around and bowling his current play mates over , jumping round , head shaking their legs , chasing balls etc and lots of rough and tumble .
Help and advice much appreciated
Heres some pics and a quick video of him and the new pad
We got the keys the 29th oct , and have been getting a few bits and pieces done before all the furnature gets moved in . Have taken ziggy along whenever we can , the first time he went to the new house he seemed very panty , and slightly over stimulated . i took along a fleece that he sleeps on and rubbed it along the doors, door frames and any place i could that was around his head height and below and then the next day when he went he seemed alot calmer , played and peed on everything in the big garden. I know when all his familar things and the furnature are in he will feel more comfy and the nicest thing is the house is on the same road as our current house so we will still do the same walk that we do in a morning and can still visit the lovely park that is local to us . We also plan to keep his routine the same to help settle him in .
Now as i have mentioned previously we wanted to get a second dog to the family and settled on having a female (as much as i would prefer two boys ) My question is , when is the right time ? The house has plenty of space to which if things didnt go well we can seperate etc and have come up with action plans for this .
There are two thoughts to when the right time is i feel :
1) Let him settle in the new pad and get used to the place and make it his own
2) get the new pup while the house is still new to him so he doesnt feel the new pup is taking over "his"house .
What are your thoughts and advice ? Would you wait 6 months ? after chirstmas ? before ?
Background on zig , he turned 3 may this year , came from a faily with kids and other dogs . His nature to other dogs is excitement , his hackles do rise , but he is just super excited . There has never been any agression to other dogs , he plays rough like most bull breeds , always seems to look worse than it is and he has a blast running around and bowling his current play mates over , jumping round , head shaking their legs , chasing balls etc and lots of rough and tumble .
Help and advice much appreciated
Heres some pics and a quick video of him and the new pad
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Re: When is the right time ?
If you have your heart set on a boy get down to the local rescue and see if there are any males that your boy gets on with. There are members here who have two males and they get on great and members who have a bitch and dog who fight all day and night. Its whatever you dog like
if you are ready, go for it! just make sure your boy is calm and not still anxious about the move.
if you are ready, go for it! just make sure your boy is calm and not still anxious about the move.
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As Hayley says we've have lots of members who have same sex or one of each dogs, I go with what you feel, personally I'd get another girl, but that's me
Go have a look once your boy is settled in
Go have a look once your boy is settled in
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Yes, but there's also a member here whose two males have just virtually killed each other.Hayley wrote:If you have your heart set on a boy get down to the local rescue and see if there are any males that your boy gets on with. There are members here who have two males and they get on great and members who have a bitch and dog who fight all day and night. Its whatever you dog like
if you are ready, go for it! just make sure your boy is calm and not still anxious about the move.
I would always sugest getting the opposite sex, and I would wait until your current boy is fully settled in your new home. If he's a little stressed, he may decide to take it out on his new playmate!
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and there are also members whos dogs have nearly killed their bitches. i personally know a family whos dog killed a dog and a bitch but was fine with any other dogs just not the ones in the house. every dog is different, sex does not mean youre safe.Caryll wrote:Yes, but there's also a member here whose two males have just virtually killed each other.Hayley wrote:If you have your heart set on a boy get down to the local rescue and see if there are any males that your boy gets on with. There are members here who have two males and they get on great and members who have a bitch and dog who fight all day and night. Its whatever you dog like
if you are ready, go for it! just make sure your boy is calm and not still anxious about the move.
I would always sugest getting the opposite sex, and I would wait until your current boy is fully settled in your new home. If he's a little stressed, he may decide to take it out on his new playmate!
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No, but you're generally safer with a dog and a bitch.Hayley wrote: sex does not mean youre safe.
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agreed, i've heard 2 of the same sex can create issues.....although saying that i have 2 male staffs and they get along great (although i would never leave the house and allow them to be together, just incase). i had cass who was about 8 months old and my girlfriends boy was 4 years old. we introduced them on neutral ground and they luckily hit it off brilliantly. i wouldn't say it's whatever dog you like, it's more whatever dog/ bitch gets on better. personally i wouldn't suggest a rescue, if i'd do it again it'd have to be a puppy so the puppy would be grow up with the dogs.Caryll wrote:Yes, but there's also a member here whose two males have just virtually killed each other.Hayley wrote:If you have your heart set on a boy get down to the local rescue and see if there are any males that your boy gets on with. There are members here who have two males and they get on great and members who have a bitch and dog who fight all day and night. Its whatever you dog like
if you are ready, go for it! just make sure your boy is calm and not still anxious about the move.
I would always sugest getting the opposite sex, and I would wait until your current boy is fully settled in your new home. If he's a little stressed, he may decide to take it out on his new playmate!
i'd get a rescue if i didn't have a dog in the first place.
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Re: When is the right time ?
I would wait until you are all fully settled into your new home then go and see about another dog/bitch. If you decide to go for a rescue dog ask them if you can take your dog along with you to meet any potential new friends. That way you will have experienced staff on hand when the initial introductions are made in a controlled environment.
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Re: When is the right time ?
Hey guys , thanks for all the advice . We plan to be super careful and think that a female pup would be the best option . If i hadnt already got a dog i wouldnt hesitate to rescue .
We will wait till he is all settled and a happy chappy in the new house (we are already having a nitemare with the fireworks!)
I still speak regularly with ziggys previous owner and he has offered to come and help with any introductions and also said that he can help source a quality breeder who will do the correct health checks etc .
Im really excited , also abit nervous about having a pup !
We will wait till he is all settled and a happy chappy in the new house (we are already having a nitemare with the fireworks!)
I still speak regularly with ziggys previous owner and he has offered to come and help with any introductions and also said that he can help source a quality breeder who will do the correct health checks etc .
Im really excited , also abit nervous about having a pup !
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Re: When is the right time ?
I think too you should wait and I would also take opposite sex. But I also would look for opposite character. I know that Debo is very confident dog and very dominate so in the future when Debo is 3, we will be looking for female who's submissive one. Good luck.
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Re: When is the right time ?
I have done introducing a new dog the right way (waited,prepared the dogs secure place & done slow introductions) & the wrong way (been dumped with unstable,neglected dogs with no history & 2 recents kittens)during 3 separate home moves! as long as yours & ziggys bond is solid & calm, timing shouldn't be the main factor but any dogs behave differently. I had 2 males & 2 female together but the girls sometimes have power struggles. Good luck with your journey.
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