advice needed

hi all i need a bit of advice ( to help a friend really) my friend was in the car with her hubby, and he wanted her to read this letter, she said she didnt want to and she would read it later (which in my eyes is fair enougth ) he wasnt having that and stopped the car and slammed the letter into the side of her head i was horrified to watch this happen, he then stormed off leaving her in tears, i said i cant beleve hes just done that he also said he hated her, i got her back home by the bus, and on returning home he called at the house told her he hated her a few more times then left, i have just left her but i told her to phone the police, was she in the wrong for not reading the letter there and then or was he just bang out of order he never hit her he was just plane nasty to her

sound like she need to get rid... some bloke take the micky out of their wifes/girlfriends

he was bang out of order no bloke should put their hand on a woman

Sounds to me like he was looking for an excuse - the letter was just convenient.

You don't suddenly hate someone just cause they won't read a letter.

If that's the way he really feels, maybe it's best she finds out now, rather than let it get worse & maybe violent?

I agree bang out of order she needs to get rid should of slammed the letter in the side of his head

yes he deff bang out of order why did he want her to read the letter can the tit not read himself =D>

bigwazza wrote:why did he want her to read the letter can the tit not read himself =D>

bigwazza wrote:yes he deff bang out of order why did he want her to read the letter can the tit not read himself =D>

good one wazza

lol he wanted her to read it to clear some thing up that was to do with the car, she said i will read it later but he just demanded she was to read it there and then i dont see what diffrence it made tbh her reading it later, there was nothing that could be done at that time, he had read it but wanted her to too even tho it was addressed to him from what i understand was a shame we had all be having a lovely day shopping and he just sprung it on her when the 3 of us got back to the car

Some people can be very odd, whay was the "letter" about? And why was it so important? Had an ex a little like that, Jeckyll and Hide, nice one min a w***er the next

Can't be doing with people who're nice one sec & nasty the next. It's like living on the edge all the time.

I know it's hard, but she's better off without him.

It doesnt matter if he slammed the letter on the side of her head,hit her,or even poked her with his finger,its all classed as assult.... Thats not a man,its a rat.

My ex used to get like that with me towards the end of our relationship, always trying to pick a fight over nothing and make me feel like s**t, turns out he was having an affair with my best friends wife and was doing anything he could to make me leave him so he didn't look like the bad guy.
In my opinion he was totally out of order. Hope she's ok now hun x

Yes, how's she taking it now?

thanks guys, shes doing ok shes at her mums at the mo, it was all over some thing to do with the insurance on the car i have spoken to her today and she says hes never done this before and its strange but shes staying at her mums until she decides what to do

Tell her hugs from all of us here!

Caryll wrote:Tell her hugs from all of us here!

thanks thats so nice i will do x