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Post by BeaunBess Sun Aug 30 2015, 17:30

blue staff, Beau, since a pup, she has put paws up on my shoulders and Nuzzled in, pushing my head from one side to other, she two now and has started doing this after barking at strangers and noises, her head generally gets higher than mine as she curls around my shoulders, I've been warned this could be her dominating. Your thoughts?

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Post by ColinW Sun Aug 30 2015, 17:42

Not sure but mine does it with me and I don't think she is wanting to dominate but just likes being there, maybe a staff thing. Seen a few pics of stafs curled up by head.
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Post by ColinW Sun Aug 30 2015, 17:43

Can only comment on my own though.
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Post by Bob Schuruncle Sun Aug 30 2015, 18:42

Mine will do this on occasion. I see it as being in a comfort zone rather than dominance.

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Post by BeaunBess Sun Aug 30 2015, 19:09

I'm so glad,Beau and I have been close since she was tiny, now my Bess, staff cross, has never done cuddles, but she quite big, she spreads herself around the family, but Beau only cuddles me really, and I didn't want to stop her, I'm grateful for your replies, thankyou Smile

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Post by -Ian- Sun Aug 30 2015, 19:21

I'm sure you know Beau best, as long as you don't feel its dominant then don't worry and enjoy those cuddles. If we are all honest it could be argued that when yer Staffy gets on the bed and then spread Eagles leaving you only an inch on the edge is a sign of dominance Laughing
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Post by BeaunBess Sun Aug 30 2015, 19:28

Mine wind themselves up in quilt ian! Lol

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Post by -Ian- Sun Aug 30 2015, 19:42

Uhuh ... Crafty little beggars aren't they Laughing
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Post by Mia05 Sun Aug 30 2015, 20:18

embrace them cuddles dnt think its a sign of dominance just a reassurance thing Smile .
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Post by BeaunBess Sun Aug 30 2015, 20:28

I agree mia, thinking about it, she does wait until I remove my glasses before she jumps up lol. Smile

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Post by Mia05 Sun Aug 30 2015, 21:09

aw does she bless her Laughing Laughing mia comes to me tail wagging and nudges my arm for reassurance. they're funny sometimes but love the character of a staffy i wouldn't have any other dog Smile
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Post by Guest Mon Aug 31 2015, 08:57

Have a quick read through this:

https://staffy-bull-terrier.niceboard.com/t62292-debunking-the-myth-the-dominance-theory

So I really don't see dominance. If anything, it sounds more like insecurity, that she's worried by strangers and noises, then comes looking to you for reassurance.

If I was to do anything at all in this situation, I'd be looking to help her relax around strangers more, and desensitise her to noises. Smile

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Post by BeaunBess Mon Aug 31 2015, 10:00

Oh Liz thankyou perfect Smile

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Post by Emmahammond25 Mon Aug 31 2015, 10:21

My pup puts his paws on my shoulders and face up against mine, just think they loves snuggles Smile
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Post by BeaunBess Mon Aug 31 2015, 10:52

I am now convinced Emma, the staffs are tactile, love being held, nothing to indicate dominance, they are just soppy lol Smile

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Post by Emmahammond25 Mon Aug 31 2015, 11:27

Yep deffo Smile
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