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Post by freyj4z Sun Aug 17 2014, 22:04

I don't know what it is or why he does it, but if I walk with liam and I cross the road or go to the toilet or something and I've walked away from loki and liam, loki will scream blue murder or be constantly looking at/for me,

We went to turf locks for my friends engagement party last night and I went to the toilet and loki screamed when I left and was lunging trying to get to me.

I am going to pick up a crate on thursday, as he can now jump the stairgate.

Any advice to help him not be so anxious when I leave, he's fine when I leave for work and he's with liam, it's just if I am out and I disappear for a bit.
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Post by JStaff Sun Aug 17 2014, 22:37

Do you have another person you can walk with? If so try disappearing for increasing amounts of time and the other person can reward with a treat if he doesn't scream
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Post by freyj4z Sun Aug 17 2014, 22:42

No I don't unfortunately Sad...
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Post by JStaff Sun Aug 17 2014, 22:44

You could try to have him sit, stay , and disappear out of eye sight. If he moves repeat the process until he will wait
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Post by freyj4z Sun Aug 17 2014, 22:45

Yeah!! I'm going to have a go tomorrow and I'm hoping the crate will help him as well.
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Post by JStaff Sun Aug 17 2014, 22:49

The crate may help but I've never really used one.
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Post by freyj4z Sun Aug 17 2014, 22:51

I just think he needs to detach from me a bit and it doesn't help that he can sleep whoever he pleases
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Post by Guest Sun Aug 17 2014, 22:51

Aww he's just a mummy's boy!! Love Struck I'd do some training like J suggests Smile xx

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Post by Rupertsbooks Mon Aug 25 2014, 12:26

He's only very young. Do practice training - one minute, two minutes etc.

Also - do not feel guilty. It's good for him to be able to stand on his own four paws: I know dog-owners who feel guilty for leaving their dog alone for periods of time but that only seems to create an anxious situation for both owner and dog.
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Post by freyj4z Mon Aug 25 2014, 17:51

I've got to go to do my assessments for my veterinary nursing tomorrow and I have to leave him all day...
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Post by JStaff Mon Aug 25 2014, 23:47

I would walk him as much as possible. Do some mental stimulation and leave a frozen kong. Best of luck Big Grin
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Post by JStaff Mon Aug 25 2014, 23:48

I would walk him as much as possible.  Do some mental stimulation and leave a frozen kong.  Best of luck Big Grin
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Post by freyj4z Tue Aug 26 2014, 09:04

We left him with, a stag bar, a plastic chew bone, his duck, I'm worried he's gonna try and get out of the cage and hurt himself, but that's just me over thinking.
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Post by JStaff Tue Aug 26 2014, 11:18

We've always let Suki have the free run of the house. She never did any major damage thankfully
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