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Post by lovemystaffies Sun Jun 08 2014, 19:07

Last week Murphy went to sleep (no more about that).   We took Madge into the vets afterwards to see him as we had been advised this could help her understand why he was not around any more.       Now she is obviously missing him a lot, very quiet and reserved and will play for a while then loses interest.   Ok for walks but doesn't explore as she used to (we live in a very safe environment and they have always been off lead a lot).   We've increased playtimes and treats and hope to arrange some walks with other doggy friends next week.    Any other advice please ?
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Post by Guest Sun Jun 08 2014, 19:09

I am sorry Madge is grieving, I have no experience sorry but yes the interacting with her as much as poss will bound to help. Hope she starts to improve very soon though must be awful for her xxx

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Post by Debs01 Sun Jun 08 2014, 19:28

Awww poor madge Sad must be worrying for you but I'm sure like us they have a grieving process they have to go through. I hope she's back to her self soon though Sad
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Post by flowerbud Sun Jun 08 2014, 19:36

Sorry for your loss. Sounds like you are doing the right things. Playing with the other dogs may perk her up a bit. X
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Post by Sazzle Sun Jun 08 2014, 20:06

I'm sorry to hear that, poor madge, hope she gets back to herself soon  Madge is grieving 3198918699 xx
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Post by Nathan Sun Jun 08 2014, 21:32

she will grieve for a while yet, her pac mate has gone. if you think the bond between human and dog is strong its nothing compared to dog on dog. just be the loving, strong and loyal owner that you are, she will need her rock for guidence and comfort.and im so sorry to hear of your loss I know its bloody hard x
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Post by janey Sun Jun 08 2014, 21:40

I am so sorry hun - its so not easy to see but its all part of a process. Madge can feel your pain also - time is healer and that is all I can say. Massive hugs from us Xx
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Post by -Ian- Mon Jun 09 2014, 00:12

She will be grieving as I'm sure you are. The love and one to one attention you're giving is spot on. As we all know, time is the healer.

Hugs from Flo and me to you both Wendy  Madge is grieving 3198918699
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Post by Maximus green Mon Jun 09 2014, 00:15

Can't advise on this one sorry , but just wanted to say sorry for your loss
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Post by Simi Mon Jun 09 2014, 00:28

So sorry for your loss
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Post by AussieStaff Mon Jun 09 2014, 10:45

No advice other than extra luvs & cuddles, for you all. V sorry for your loss x
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Post by lumpydog Mon Jun 09 2014, 10:49

So sorry for your loss. No doubt both of you will get through this sad period of time. Madge will also be picking up on your sadness too. Hope things get better soon
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Post by Lizzie Mon Jun 09 2014, 11:08

Just wanted to say I'm sorry about Murphy and can appreciate how
hard it is to lose a dog and then see its partner going through
the grieving process.

When she is ready Madge will pick up.

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Post by djstratton Mon Jun 09 2014, 11:25

So sorry for your loss :'( Not sure there is much more than what you're already doing for Madge. Thinking of you all.
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Post by Kathy Mon Jun 09 2014, 13:13

So sorry to hear that Madge is grieving for Murphy, if Madge sees that you are coping well I'm sure she will pick up on your good vibes. Lots of walks meeting new friends should also help. Try to keep her as occupied as you can with lots of toys, a stuffed Kong at dinnertime may be of benefit too.
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Post by lovemystaffies Mon Jun 09 2014, 13:25

Thanks to everyone for your kind words; they make me weep but afterwards I feel better and give Madge another cuddle.
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Post by silver Mon Jun 09 2014, 14:25

Wendy, so sorry for your loss.
When I lost my Reggie, he and Charlie had been together for nearly 13 years.
She missed him, but feel she felt my grief and that made her unhappy for a while.
She perked up soon though as I forced my self to appear cheery around her and of course relished all the love and attention I gave her.
She lived a long and happy life til nearly 14 years old.
As Kathy said ,she will pick up on your good vibes xx
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Post by Guest Mon Jun 09 2014, 19:09

So sorry for your loss Madge is grieving 3198918699

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Post by MoreGun89 Mon Jun 09 2014, 19:15

Our condolences, it's always tough losing family.
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Post by Sara n Ozzy Mon Jun 09 2014, 20:57

Aww I'm really sorry hope thinks slowly start to get better for you all
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Post by stella Tue Jun 10 2014, 20:15

as already said time is a great healer and madge and yourself needs time,lots of cuddles for you all  Madge is grieving 3198918699 
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