Xaja

Dear staffyfans,

it been a while since i post a new topic. it has several reasons
first one is that my boyfriend and i broke up, and the second reason is: he took my beautifull girl with him ;(
i didn't want to put up a fight about her, because he's stronger than me.

my friends take the effort and care and they showed me what real friends are! Luckly I met a amstaff who needed a
new home, because the french bulldog they have is very stressed and lost weight and always in a bad mood.

Benji is his name and he is 22 wks old, this sunday i'm going to pick him up
I know for some it will be look like a replacement for Xaja, but since she's gone, i'm not happy and i'm not going outside. feels like a depression and i hate it. Benji will be OUR dog! no one can take him away from us, my son is unhappy and he was so sad and cried! it broke my heart. Now he knows there going to be a new friend in our home, he is so happy and he wants to meet him so bad! I see twinkles in his eyes and that is my goal, to make the both of us happy again.

srry for not being around, but soon i will post some pic's of benji, and i'm sure, you're going to love him!!!

That sucks, my ex took my first staffy also so I understand completely. Hugs from us and congrats on the soon to be new addition

Hi Miriam, so sorry to hear of your break up, these things are never easy to deal with and I'm sure there are some here who can relate to you easily.

It's times like these that you do find out who your friends really are. Enough dumldrems, I bet you are looking forward to cellecting Benji at the weekend as we look forward to an overload of pictures of him.

Take care and please come and have a good rant when ever you need to.

Thank you so much! It was meant to be when I met Benji... So weird, he's the first dog since couple of weeks I have a good feeling with. They trained him well!! He knows all the commando's, doesn't bark very often, he walks loose, after some feet he is sitting down and wait for the boss to walk with him. Giving paws...
I'm glad I'm not the only one in this situation, and it gives me strength thank you for the support!  

Aww Miriam it's sounds like you've really been through it I'm sure benji will help you & your son recover & heal from the loss of xaja

yes Darcy, he torned us apart to take Xaja away from us..
I feel the same way like you about Benji. He will bring joy and happiness in our home.. My son is autistic and for him it is 10 times harder to cope with than normal children.. Now my goal is to take care of them both

I'm so sorry to hear you've been having a tough time :(hug):Welcome back and here's to things looking up now, can't wait to meet Benji xxx

thx sazzle! xxx

Oh Miriam im sorry to hear of what you and your son have gone through recently! Must be horrible. But im sure that you will all have a great family with Benji! Cant wait too hear lots of stories and see loads of pics of him!

well, i can't wait to tell them!!! pfff my patience getting worst every minute:!! 

I know its so difficult waiting! But when you get him, im sure Benji will definitely be worth the wait!

Sorry to hear you've had a rough time - these things are never easy and I do hope you are feeling brighter as the days go on  Benji is a gorgeous boy .. look forward to hearing and seeing more of him xxx

Sorry to hear of your troubles, men eh! Sure Benji will bring so much more happiness from now on. 

Aww bless you, sorry to hear you have had a rubbish time.
I bet you are so excited to collect your new best friend I am sure he will bring you lots of joy - Lots of pics please

he will! thx sarah

It must be wonderful to have something so lovely to look forward to, bet you cannot wait to collect him.

No i cant wait!! Inpatience!

Congrats on Benji!! I would be heartbroken but sometimes you find a new love that you wouldn't have ever discovered otherwise.

I'm so sorry to hear about your breakup and everything you've been going through. I can't even imagine what I would do if someone tried to take my Gwennie away:( I can't wait to meet Benji! I'm sure he will be a great companion for you and your son!

Hope we get to hear plenty of stories and see plenty of pics of your new dog