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long time hope your all well
Hi guys sorry i haven,t been on for awhile had a nightmare few weeks so much going on.
Had abit of a stressful situation which caused me too fall out with my best friend,
Its something i think only other mad staffie owners would understand..!!
I met her through our dogs she had a beautiful male our dogs grow up together, at the begining of the year my friend had a baby, and i started too see her dog being pushed out alot i use too help with walks etc but afew months back she tells me she can,t cope with the dog and baby...!!!
My very sensitive response was why did you have a baby then lol but wish people would see their commitment too a dog the same as when you have a child you cant just get rid of a family member, when you have a new child unless their are extreme circumstance!!
But we sorted of got through it although i didn,t agree she said she had found him a great home with her brother in the country,
So you can imagine my Horror when i was helping another friend at a dog rescue centre too find her beautiful boy in there it has broke my heart i can,t have him and i just felt helpless.
I am furious but people think i,m being too hard on her
Oh well i,m sure life will move on.
My girls are doing great Ava has grown up so much she is 7mnths now and lovely hope you and all your beautiful dogs are well xxx
Had abit of a stressful situation which caused me too fall out with my best friend,
Its something i think only other mad staffie owners would understand..!!
I met her through our dogs she had a beautiful male our dogs grow up together, at the begining of the year my friend had a baby, and i started too see her dog being pushed out alot i use too help with walks etc but afew months back she tells me she can,t cope with the dog and baby...!!!
My very sensitive response was why did you have a baby then lol but wish people would see their commitment too a dog the same as when you have a child you cant just get rid of a family member, when you have a new child unless their are extreme circumstance!!
But we sorted of got through it although i didn,t agree she said she had found him a great home with her brother in the country,
So you can imagine my Horror when i was helping another friend at a dog rescue centre too find her beautiful boy in there it has broke my heart i can,t have him and i just felt helpless.
I am furious but people think i,m being too hard on her
Oh well i,m sure life will move on.
My girls are doing great Ava has grown up so much she is 7mnths now and lovely hope you and all your beautiful dogs are well xxx
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Re: long time hope your all well
thanks Dave hope princess Tilly and the Tominator are doing well i bet he is getting so big how old is tommy now??Dave wrote:welcome back Crystel ><
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Welcome back, and as for the situation i dont think you were being harsh and im sure alot of people would have felt the same as yourself. x
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crystel wrote:thanks Dave hope princess Tilly and the Tominator are doing well i bet he is getting so big how old is tommy now??Dave wrote:welcome back Crystel ><
Tommy is 17 weeks now and has the smelliest farts ever , god my dog stinks let me out of here ..................
He's not far off being as tall as Tilly , I will have to get some photos of them this weekend and get them on
And how are the girls doing
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Hiya, so pleased I haven't friends like that!!
Hope you and yours are good otherwise
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LOL dave are you sure its not you and your just blaming TommyDave wrote:crystel wrote:thanks Dave hope princess Tilly and the Tominator are doing well i bet he is getting so big how old is tommy now??Dave wrote:welcome back Crystel ><
Tommy is 17 weeks now and has the smelliest farts ever , god my dog stinks let me out of here ..................
He's not far off being as tall as Tilly , I will have to get some photos of them this weekend and get them on
And how are the girls doing
i can,t believe he is 17wks how time flies
Oh yes would love too see some photos of him
The girls are good still very spoilt x
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thanks hope you and Suki are well xjstaff wrote:welcome back
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I know Janey it was a difficult time never thought she would get rid of her dog!!! Moo looks lovely in your avator hope she is well xjaney wrote:
Hiya, so pleased I haven't friends like that!!
Hope you and yours are good otherwise
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thanks i think alot of us on here would feel the same but so many people see dogs as a burden once kids come along!! hope your three beautiful dogs are well xxXxshelly_stanliexXx wrote:Welcome back, and as for the situation i dont think you were being harsh and im sure alot of people would have felt the same as yourself. x
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Hi and welcome back to us.
A very difficult situation to be in for anyone. I do wish people would think things through a little more, it always seems to be the little innocent ones that suffer.
I hope things can get sorted out. I really hope a good forever home is found.
A very difficult situation to be in for anyone. I do wish people would think things through a little more, it always seems to be the little innocent ones that suffer.
I hope things can get sorted out. I really hope a good forever home is found.
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Oh the poor dog, goes way beyond my way of thinking
Welcome back, good to see all well with you and your two precious ones.
Welcome back, good to see all well with you and your two precious ones.
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crystel wrote:thanks i think alot of us on here would feel the same but so many people see dogs as a burden once kids come along!! hope your three beautiful dogs are well xxXxshelly_stanliexXx wrote:Welcome back, and as for the situation i dont think you were being harsh and im sure alot of people would have felt the same as yourself. x
We just got / getting rid of the kids as they are a burden on the dogs My OH is stopping the childminding , for her own reasons as the government are just making it ridiculous with the qualifications required etc, but we had a little boy who used to constantly try and kick either one of the dogs and terrorise them so he was the first to go, it ended up that they couldn't participate with the kids and had to be kept away for theirs and the kids safety. So out with the kids and in with the dogs , thats the better way to do it
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What a cow, I would of got angry with her too. especially since she could have told u the truth and allowed you to help find him a good forever home. Welcome back!!
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ah thanks hope you and your doggies are well, thats exactly how i felt i could have found him a home but when i thought he was going too the country with her brother i knew that would be a great home for him, now i just feel betrayed, i do get very sensitive over dogs though thats just me xxNosipho wrote:What a cow, I would of got angry with her too. especially since she could have told u the truth and allowed you to help find him a good forever home. Welcome back!!
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crystel wrote: i do get very sensitive over dogs though thats just me xx
I'm sure you are not alone in this.
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Welcome, how sad about your friends dog. I woulndt speak to them either!
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