My Mate Is a Nutter

he drive me up the bloody wall, he cant move on from his ex(who as 2 kid with him) she proper a fruit and nut cake i'm not joking too the things she used to moan about while i was around if he was like 5 mins late coming back from the shops she used say he was seeing someone else, she has move away from nottingham like 5 times now in like 4 years i cant remember what it called but she keep going to a groups who help female who has been abuse she asn't been abuse once i cant believe they keep rehoming all over the country when there are proper wive's and females who are really getting abuse. wasting tax payer money anyway i think she moving back up to nottingham moving in with my mate again. i know he as 2 kids with her but surly all this moving around & school isn't good for them i put money on her going to this group again in a couple months to get a place in london again. i wouldn't put up with it if she did that to me once that is it that would be game over for me, if that ment not seeing my kids so be it when they older and coming looking for me i would tell them how there mum was like.

Its a tricky one cos of the kids but there's only so much someone can take before they get to breaking point. Maybe your mate will reach that point soon

i dont know my breaking point would of been the first time when she went to ireland he did 3 place up 2 house & maisonette, i did most of the painting for him and she just gave all of them up.....

He should just tell her to do one and arrange access to see his kids. Some people just completely take the mick.

when she does a runner she wont let him see the kids or even talk to them on the phone for a couple of months. his older girl must of miss alot of school. when she came back the last time she was at school for like 3 weeks then she did another runner you just cant carrry on like that. i'm shock that the social asn't step by now.

You do get them....shame cos the one who suffers is the kids. It's amazing how much you take when your in that sitsuation yourself, but when you see someone else putting up with it you think are they mad. Unforntunaly kids are used as weapons by some sad people

i know but i wouldn't have anything to do with her just the sake of the kid.

steve when you have your own kids you will think a lot diff a lot lot diff
like blue says you get some saddos that just use there kids as powns in there little games

i would end up doing time if i had to put up with her so i would have to keep away you know. my dad did the samething with his first 2 kids

I hate mums who use their kids to hurt the dad like that. Its just depriving the kids of their dad at the end of the day. My husband and I split up for a few months last year and as much as he'd hurt me, I would never have stopped him seeing the kids. He had them from friday to sunday every week. He's a good dad and who would want to take that away from their kids just to p**s off the dad? Its so selfish