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Post by cesca1 Fri Jan 18 2013, 16:18

I think Moll and Watson are in the transition of establishing who is top dog. Watson tried to hump Moll, she's not in season, following this she growled at him a couple of times during the evening and he seemed very wary of her. He hasn't humped her again. Since the couple of growls things seem to have balanced out and they seem happier.

My question is if she growls or he humps again what should I do? I don't want to mess anything up if they're establishing a doggy order.
Is it normally the female that's dominant?
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Post by Fraggle Fri Jan 18 2013, 16:25

No advice to share ..
But my elder bitch (4 years) 'humped' Luna for a week or so, when we got her Rolling Eyes Laughing
They seem to have gotten over it now thank god
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Post by Guest Fri Jan 18 2013, 16:27

I'd step in. The odd little grumble isn't a problem & they'll sort themselves out, but humping will always cause a rucus!

It's often the female that bosses the male around, but not always.

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Post by cesca1 Fri Jan 18 2013, 16:33

Will do. I think the aludex washes have also made her depressed and lethargic hence not putting up with any nonsense from Watson. How would you step in say no sternly and remove said naughty dog?

Hopefully they've sorted things out - this morning they were both lying in the same bed... She had let him little madam. Its like they've both agreed she's boss if that makes sense?
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Post by Mark Fri Jan 18 2013, 16:40

I think the female is more dominant than the male Miley used to hump Dylan for the first week after we got him. She still does it every now and again. Smile
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Post by Guest Fri Jan 18 2013, 18:39

Tommy is establishing himself as the boss with our 2 , not seen him hump her though , my OH says she has witnessed it. He did hump a boy Spaniel on the field the other day though , it is literally the 1st time I have seen him do it

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Post by Guest Fri Jan 18 2013, 19:15

cesca1 wrote:How would you step in say no sternly and remove said naughty dog?

Personally I step forward, right up to the dog & say something like "Oi! Enough!" or "No, leave!" and then if necessary pull the humper off!

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Post by astubliffhacked Sat Jan 19 2013, 00:30

caryll, you might want to edit that post
" if necessary pull the humper off" just a thought Laughing
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Post by Guest Sat Jan 19 2013, 00:58

astubliffhacked wrote:caryll, you might want to edit that post
" if necessary pull the humper off" just a thought Laughing

Nope. What I said is what I meant.

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Post by astubliffhacked Sat Jan 19 2013, 01:13

ok, so the joke went over your head...................
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Post by Guest Sat Jan 19 2013, 01:14

Fraid so.

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Post by Oswald Sat Jan 19 2013, 02:19

astubliffhacked wrote:caryll, you might want to edit that post
" if necessary pull the humper off" just a thought Laughing

Bwhahaha!!
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Post by cesca1 Sat Jan 19 2013, 02:28

I'm with Caryll on this one! Thank you
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Post by Guest Sat Jan 19 2013, 11:15

Oswald wrote:
astubliffhacked wrote:caryll, you might want to edit that post
" if necessary pull the humper off" just a thought Laughing

Bwhahaha!!

OK, just realised what you're on about! Laughing

God, I'm slow at times! doh

So, to rephrase..........

"if necessary, grab hold of the dog doing the humping and take it away from the other dog!"
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Post by astubliffhacked Sat Jan 19 2013, 21:39

time delay but we got there Big Grin
was a bit worried you'd taken offence ..............
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Post by Guest Sat Jan 19 2013, 22:05

Humping is nearly always a dominance issue and not sexual (despite the jokes above Big Grin )

As Caryll says, paraphrasing to avoid more jokes, stop the humper (by forcible removal if necessary) and tell him or her "NO".

They will settle down into a "who's boss" relationship sooner or later.

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