Update on Dad

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I don't think dad's got long to live now. He went in for a scan on Monday for his brain and said to mum he felt a bit ill after wards. On Tuesday He seemed ok but felt ill again and went to bed early afternoon and has not got out of bed since then. He's still in bed now. Mum had to clean him up as he was sick all over the sheets and he does not no where he is or who he is. It's very sad. We are going to try and put him in hospital in the morning as he's getting bad now, but I have a feeling he won't be coming out of it. Mum want's me to help him get him down stairs and in the car as he is heavy and she cant do this her shelf. I don't no what to think now.

Hi Annette, yes please. And there is nothing worse than family at these times but sometimes it's their way of coping with the loss of someone. They don't know what to do but think they should be doing something and then get in the way. It will all settle in a bit. Thinking of you at this sad time.

Im sorry to hear this Net, Big hugs to you and your family x

Well this is what i'm going to write.

To my loving Dad
I will always love you. I will never forget you. You will always be in my heart. I no you will always be watching over me seeing how I'm doing in life making you very proud. I will never forget the moments we had together at the cinema seeing star wars and star treck. I will never forget the words you use to say to me was 'hay babe' and then greet me with big open arms and hug me with a kiss when ever I came round the house to see you. I will never forget when you were a bus driver and I use to sit on your lap as a little girl on the bus to pretend to drive the bus and I will never forget how proud you were when you took me to the bus depot and say 'this is my little girl Nanette'. I'm sorry I never gave you a granchild, but treated Leo and Bubbles as your granchildren and they will dearly miss you. I will love you forever your daughter Nanette.



I hope that does not make you up set by reading this. It does on every one else.

I would like to say that I think that is a beautiful compliment to a Dad who you clearly loved very,very much.
I think any Dad would be very proud to have a daughter say something so beautiful in his memory.

Net, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, my thoughts are with you and your family.
Your tribute to your dad is lovely and I agree with wids - he would be very proud.
Stay stong xxxx

That's beautiful net! Dad's are a wonderful people. (I lost mine 2 yrs ago & will never forget him.) Keep him close to your heart & he will always be with you. Remember his ways / saying's / quirk's & he will be with you forever. Love, live & remember him, just as he would want you to!

i loved my dad so much.he was all i needed.
the best you can do for your dad is to let him go, hell always love you,as im sure you love him.